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July 24, 2012

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Wild Cougar’s Wild Swing Weekend, Part 1

This weekend was CRAZY.  WILD.  The craziest stuff I have ever experienced.  I don’t even know where to begin.  I can’t believe it.   So much happened this weekend, its gonna take a whole week to tell you all about it.  Maybe two.  But I want you to know all the details of how I discovered the swinger scene.

I went to my first swinger event last night.   It was a happy hour at a local restaurant.  They call these “meet and greet” because you just meet and greet.  You scope out the menu to see if there is anything you would like to taste at a later time.

Ok, if you don’t know what a swinger event, is, I’m gonna give you the quickie definition.  Then you can go look it up.  Swingers are people who like to have sex with other people.  If they are married, they bring the spouse along so he or she can participate in the fun.  Everybody agrees that nobody should get jealous or display any unpleasant emotions because that would ruin the sex.

See,  I was getting bored with trying to meet and maintain fuck buddies.  I just needed a few good men.  Three or four.  That’s all.  But they would always fade after a couple of months.  Then I decided I would start dating.  Yeah, I know I’ve only been at it about a month, but I haven’t found anyone yet.  I’m already bored with it.  And the men aren’t showing much initiative, or they have a bad attitude.  Or they’re flakes.  They’re as bad as the fuck buddies.  Actually worse, because at least I get sex from the fuck buddies.  These other guys give me zip, nada, nothing.

Anyway, so I’d had it up to here (pointing at my tits) with that and I wanted something new.  I wanted an adventure.  I researched these swinger groups online.  I did a Google search for swinger groups in my area and a few websites came up.  Some were Yahoo groups, some had their own social networking site.  Some were pay, some were free.  I signed up for a few and started posting questions about swinging.  I like to do my research before I start anything new.

OK, so this is what I found out.   There are a lot of swingers in my area.  In my neighborhood, even.  Apparently I live right smack in the middle of Freakytown.   Most of the swingers I saw on these sites seemed to be middle aged professionals.   Couples.  It seems like these swing groups don’t like single men.  They restrict their membership and charge them more when they do allow them to go to the parties.

Ok, so I can see why some single men could mess it up for all single men.  The possibility of easy sex can turn some single men into panting dogs. I’ve heard they get aggressive.  Pulling their unrequested dicks out and getting loud and insulting if someone turns them down.  According to these swinger websites, married men don’t act like that.  At least not when the wife is there watching.  But therein lies the dilemma

I like single men.  Not  married men.  Why?  I like to be on equal footing with my sex partner.  Same risks same benefits.  I want the man to be free to do whatever, whenever.   Not just what the wife says is ok.  I am not interested in being a sex toy to spice up a marriage.
So it would appear that the swinger lifestyle is not for me.  Unless there are parties with plenty of single men.  It didn’t look good so far, but I was willing to give it a try for one reason.

From what I could see, single women are treated very well in the swinger lifestyle.  They get in free to the parties.  Or at a reduced price.  Everyone wants them.  Especially new single women.  So even if I didn’t find someone to get naked with, I could have fun with some fun people.  I wouldn’t feel like an outsider because everyone would be friendly.  Theoretically.

 

 

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6 Comments Post a comment
  1. Todd
    Sep 6 2011

    #Truth.

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  2. chunk
    Sep 6 2011

    keep looking… there are groups with single men too!

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  3. Sep 6 2011

    Well single men usually aren’t invited to swinger events because then the balance is pretty much always in favor of men greatly outnumbering the women and at that point it just becomes a line. Single men are usually allowed at a cap and having to pay a extremely high fee.

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    • Todd
      Sep 6 2011

      Single men ARE invited, because I was one of the dudes. That said, it’s like the Marines, the few, the proud, the brave. It’s also like the NBA in that while you don’t have to be the best in all matter sexual (though it does help), if you’re to even make it to the bench, you have to be better than 99% of the male population at SOMETHING sexual. Trust me…they WILL find those dudes.

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      • Wild Cougar
        Sep 7 2011

        A little self promotion there? Heh, heh. It’s funny, cause the guys i finally did get to watch seemed to be pleasing the women, for the most part.

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    • Wild Cougar
      Sep 7 2011

      Whachu know ’bout that, baby boy? Hush! And stay outta grown folks’ conversations. ;-)

      Reply

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