Wild Cougar’s Wild Swing Weekend, Part 1
I went to my first swinger event last night. It was a happy hour at a local restaurant. They call these “meet and greet” because you just meet and greet. You scope out the menu to see if there is anything you would like to taste at a later time.
Ok, if you don’t know what a swinger event, is, I’m gonna give you the quickie definition. Then you can go look it up. Swingers are people who like to have sex with other people. If they are married, they bring the spouse along so he or she can participate in the fun. Everybody agrees that nobody should get jealous or display any unpleasant emotions because that would ruin the sex.
See, I was getting bored with trying to meet and maintain fuck buddies. I just needed a few good men. Three or four. That’s all. But they would always fade after a couple of months. Then I decided I would start dating. Yeah, I know I’ve only been at it about a month, but I haven’t found anyone yet. I’m already bored with it. And the men aren’t showing much initiative, or they have a bad attitude. Or they’re flakes. They’re as bad as the fuck buddies. Actually worse, because at least I get sex from the fuck buddies. These other guys give me zip, nada, nothing.
Anyway, so I’d had it up to here (pointing at my tits) with that and I wanted something new. I wanted an adventure. I researched these swinger groups online. I did a Google search for swinger groups in my area and a few websites came up. Some were Yahoo groups, some had their own social networking site. Some were pay, some were free. I signed up for a few and started posting questions about swinging. I like to do my research before I start anything new.
OK, so this is what I found out. There are a lot of swingers in my area. In my neighborhood, even. Apparently I live right smack in the middle of Freakytown. Most of the swingers I saw on these sites seemed to be middle aged professionals. Couples. It seems like these swing groups don’t like single men. They restrict their membership and charge them more when they do allow them to go to the parties.
Ok, so I can see why some single men could mess it up for all single men. The possibility of easy sex can turn some single men into panting dogs. I’ve heard they get aggressive. Pulling their unrequested dicks out and getting loud and insulting if someone turns them down. According to these swinger websites, married men don’t act like that. At least not when the wife is there watching. But therein lies the dilemma
I like single men. Not married men. Why? I like to be on equal footing with my sex partner. Same risks same benefits. I want the man to be free to do whatever, whenever. Not just what the wife says is ok. I am not interested in being a sex toy to spice up a marriage.
So it would appear that the swinger lifestyle is not for me. Unless there are parties with plenty of single men. It didn’t look good so far, but I was willing to give it a try for one reason.